I'm due to a son with dh in 3 months. This was an unplanned pregnancy and for the first 3 months we were both pretty apprehensive about telling everyone. My husband's apprehension was based on his embarrassment about not being totally financially secure. My apprehension was because my dh was embarrassed. It kind of made me feel ashamed and inadequate that my husband was so worried. Anyway, almost six months in, and my husband isn't still isn't discussing anything related to this pregnancy with me or anyone else. Not even with his/my own family. When people bring up me being pregnant, he will go as far as to change the subject. He is very unsupportive. I got sick at work on Saturday (I work for my md) Once I was released to go home, I called him to tell him I'd fainted at work and that I was on my way home. He wasn't the least bit concerned. He just said "ok...call me when you get home". LOL...I wasn't expecting a parade, but a "are you ok?" "are you sure you should be driving?" or "is everything ok with the baby" would have been more normal than "call me when you get home". Now mind you, he couldn't offer to pick me up because he was at SS9's football game (he's at the football field from 1pm-7pm every saturday, 5-9 pm Mon, Tues and Thurs...and no....SS is not good at it at all) When dh is home, he's usually downstairs watching tv for hours and I don't even get a chance to talk to him until it's time for bed. (God forbid I interrupt a football game) When I ask for some time for us just to talk, he usually gets an attitude and just says "about what...if you have something to say, just say it". LOL....yeah like i really want to talk to you with that attitude. I feel so disgusted because I have always accommodated him, his lifestyle and his son. And that same care is not reciprocated. Ooooohhhh, and mind you....we don't even discuss the pregnancy around ss. The last time I even mentioned something about it, SS went home and said something crazy to bm about it and she sent a nasty text message to dh about me discussing things with HER son. So now, I don't even talk about it when he's at our house. I just walk around with my big belly hanging out like nothing's changed. And no....Dh is not talking about it with his son either. Ugghhhh, this is just more stressful than it needs to be. I have to already worry about money...but this silliness on top of it is just too much.
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